What we set out to achieve
Relationship counselling
My goal is to help you to:
- understand yourself first and then your partner
- bring clarity to the situation
- improve communication
- resolve conflict
- rebuild after an affair
- heal after a relationship breakdown
- build a brighter future
- improve overall well-being and health
- learn skills to make future decisions based on wisdom and compassion
For best results, your goal is to:
- tell me your story surrounding the event
- be open and honest
- be considerate during the session
- ask questions when unsure
- be proactive, not reactive
- be able to accept self responsibility
- put aside any perceived judgments you may have
- listen clearly to your partner
- know you will have your say
My job in relationship counselling is to be on the side of the relationship – not on the side of either of the couple. I sit ‘on the fence’. I hear what each person is saying and if that information is detrimental to the relationship we discuss this together until a compromise is reached or a more flexible outcome is achieved.
Other counselling
Depending on the circumstances involved, I endeavour to ultimately work with the client to produce a plan based on the client’s personal needs and desires. I will stand with them during their sessions, providing a balanced viewpoint and a solid base on which they can depend.